Some of what he has done.

Dr. Philip Hickman, Founder and CEO of the Kansas City EdTech Company Plabook and original Co-Founder of WeCode is playing games with men and women’s lives and hearts. As a trained psychologist he uses manipulative and abusive behavior to control women. He has made headlines before with scandal, deception and his downlow (aka secret relationships with men) cheating. 

 

In August of 2020, just 8 months after I had my last child, Philip reached out to me via Facebook and I curved him a few times. Finally early 2021 I agreed to call him but never did. At some point he asked if I was ever going to reach out so I surprised him with a phone call. He was very charming. I asked him what he wanted and why he wanted me to call him. He said, “I am going to marry you and we’re going to build our legacy”. Naturally, I thought that he was crazy. Plus, most men I meet say they want to marry me. He was out of town for work so we didn’t arrange a date until a few days after. We communicated over the phone during that work trip. During our first date he got on one knee and told me that he wanted me to be his wife. He told me to get rid of anyone that I was dating, and that he was going to take care of me. Philip kept telling me to follow the “plan” which originally was us being engaged, then in 3-4 months our families would come together for the engagement dinner and in months 4-5 we would be married. Then he asked me if I could get pregnant and told me that he wanted to get me pregnant so that he could “trap” me. I actually wanted another child to give my baby a playmate and told him that he did not have to trap me; we could just make a baby. I never agreed to the married within a few months timeframe. He did that with his previous wives and I told him we needed more time because when I get married, I want it to be forever. We continued on with our relationship and everything seemed somewhat normal in the beginning. Throughout or relationship he never stopped complimenting me and showering me with I love youse.

 

Months went by and Philip kept me on a short leash. Initially, I really didn’t notice because I had a small child that kept me busy along with the fact that he legitimately traveled a lot for work. I used to travel 50% of the time for work and am used to busy productive men who travel a lot for business. I am used to not seeing a whole lot of my man. He would tell me how things weren’t going as planned with Plabook and how we had to postpone things like wedding, house etc. but he was set on us having our baby. When I questioned why have a baby if things aren’t going as planned, he’d say because things will get better and it takes 9 months for the baby to get here blah blah blah. I held on to all of my daughter’s baby items in case we had a girl. He was hoping for a girl since he did not have any biological daughters. I was running out of space to store the baby items and was supposed to store them at his home.

The longer it took for me to get pregnant he would accuse me of being on birth control, not being fertile and not really trying. Philip would literally harass me about why I haven’t given him a baby. Told me, “you gave those other niggas babies, where is my baby?!” I felt like a failure. I wanted another child so bad. Even prior to us being together. The thought that the man that I love and wanted to spend the rest of my life with being disappointed with me was crushing. I went to my doctor and she thought that I was crazy. I could obviously have more children. I have a baby. His youngest “biological” child is in high school. She kept telling me that he was the problem and that we could revisit the topic only after several more months of failed attempts. In the meanwhile I tracked my ovulation, used apps, thermometers, fertility tests etc., to keep track of fertility.

Finally my doctor agreed to do a series of test and gave me meds to increase fertility. Only because I have history of fibroids, previous uterus surgery, and advanced maternal age. Yeah, I am geriatric! Still she thought that I was crazy, one for wanting another baby, two for thinking that I couldn’t have another baby. She also insisted that Philip allowed her to set him up for a sperm evaluation. Philip declined saying that he was too busy. All of the test came back as me having no issues with fertility and the treatments did not prove fruitful. 

 

So let’s pause on the baby conversation for a little while. 

 

At some point Philip kept making strange comments to me. He’d say things like, “you cannot be real. You’re like a dream. You are like a Stepford Wife. I don’t think your kids are real.” The list goes on and on. Then he started accusing me of cheating, telling me how all of his time was accounted for but he did not know what I was doing with my time. Suddenly had an issue with me going dancing, after I asked permission and he claimed to be okay with it. Then there was an issue with how I dressed. If he saw my nipple show through my clothing then he’d tell me that someone must to have made me horny. Make jealous comments if I was photographed with male business leaders. He just kept coming to me with accusations. One day mid-February 2022, I told him if you don’t trust me so much then leave. Philip chose to break up but I ended up visiting him at his hotel room to talk. It was very emotional for both of us. He told me that he felt like a failure because Plabook wasn’t taking off like he planned and that he wasn’t ready for marriage. I also noticed a new tattoo on his inner wrist and he literally wrestled me so that I would not see it. He told me that he was embarrassed to show me but that it was for a loved one who passed away. That was not the first time that he acted strange about a new tattoo. He has an upper sleeve tattoo that supposedly represents an old classmate who passed away. He told me that he was embarrassed about that too some months before and acted similar about that new tattoo. I now personally think that the guy was his boyfriend but, whatever. I thought it was strange but it seemed to check out. Eventually, I forgot about the other tattoo. I saw it but never looked at the details. 

 

That same month, February 2022 we ended up being back to trying to have our baby. Eventually I realized that I had not been to his home since the original break up. Philip always had a seemingly valid excuse ready for anything that I questioned. He is like an actor who routinely follows a script, witch is why he is so good at winning grants and pitch competitions. This time it was that his irresponsible sister moved in and that her two sons were sharing his space with him. He told me how things were cramped and uncomfortable. I did ask him how does that stop him from having company but I didn’t question the story about his sister. He has told me before that his sister seems to have it together but is irresponsible. She always moves in with their mom and causes them to get evicted due to not paying rent. That was why he purchased the home in the first place so that his mom could have a stable place to live.

 

So let’s fast forward to this month. He stopped by my home Sept 6, 2022 on his way to Nebraska for a Pipeline program that evolves Plabook. We talked a bit, had sex. I told him that I was not ovulating, so not to harass me about a baby. He told me that I should be able to create our baby at any time. Two days later, I noticed that he had been posting images of a house that I did not recognize on his facebook page. At first thought, it could have been a relative’s home but I decided to do a search to see if he owned another home. The search came up with a new home in his name and a lady’s name that has his same last name. I immediately contacted Philip and told him that I knew that he was married and purchased a home. His response to me was that he told me about the mistake that he made in Vegas and how he accidentally got married. (That was a lie) Philip told me that she was taking care of him, how she injected $100,000 into Plabook that she is the one who purchased the home and she was getting him into ministry at his church. His ‘suga’ momma! Philip begged me not to leave and to give him time to figure out how to leave his new wife. He claimed not to know how long he knew her. He even claimed to not know when they got married. I told Philip that I could not handle this and that I am extremely hurt and heartbroken. Again he kept asking for more time to fix it and kept saying how he hasn’t even had a chance to have a conversation with me about it all. I was like, “what conversation?” Philip out of town and kept putting it off but had no issues with constantly calling me to make sure I would not leave him. He admitted to thinking that he’d be rich enough by now to make me happy. (Take care of both me and his wife) How listening to beliefs about plural relationships started to sink into his head. He was back in town for maybe a day before he had to leave to go to Tampa. During his brief time home he wanted to see me but by the time I agreed he was already at the airport. He was still talking about making our baby.

Philip has also told me some months back about how his father dogged his mom by cheating and that he didn’t even recognize his dad. This definitely appears to be a pattern among the Hickman men.

 

What is interesting is that I have been around Philip’s mother on several occasions, even cooked dinner in her kitchen. Philip has introduced me to his children even his step-son from a previous marriage and his grandson. He has made comments about how I better hurry up and give him his baby within earshot of his second son. When I told Philip’s wife about me, she called his mom and she told her that she knows me. After I initially published this report other women have mentioned meeting his mother. This is disturbing to me or maybe my parents are just haters because my parents would have said something slick if that many women were around like, “one of your little girlfriends is at the door! or which one is this?” That little girlfriend would definitely get some clue that she is one of many.

 

I had an open joke with Philip about how I was feeling real sidechick-ish or would say things like, “your girlfriend” due to him always being so busy and on the road. He’d say things like, “you’re on one”! Whole time that wasn’t far from the truth. Please note that I am aware that I should have walked away a long time ago.

 

Ok, back to the baby. I sent him a message telling him that he was trying to make his wife a stepmother in her own marriage and that we could still try for our baby. (I know, momentarily act of insanity is my excuse. Let’s just blame it on the pregnancy hormones that Philip let me take). He laughed and told me that he was fine with it. That was Sunday. I told him that we would need to try this week as soon as he got back, so that was the plan. Come Wednesday, I felt extremely guilty (even though this was Philips fault, not mine). I told him that, I could not have his baby and that it was over between us. Then I told him that I was going to tell his wife, his pastor and everyone. The games stop here! 

 

Here are some recordings from when I found out that Philip Hickman was married and discussed it with him.

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1dyO_YWrD0HILgpcKfl39oUDASHAYYQGr/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1cgX2thUOvzfxT3ufEzndEnwzOywPYjFL/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Saa3gkjvX0Rz8WEZIfetQP4UoMn-bKcT/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1haCIsxOoazWiL0KVQW_2I6PIJRAR75AR/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1aUSrW_R4DLukLKLgCcO4l_7qtNXZMjPY/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ohKxOprTYN0ifZ0D46dUkK4aOkVZ53WV/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Tl8nU9P_HpYA4BlDRR5vCwmQ_ajzRNU4/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1dH8JymskAxBzQfZwU5TiVS684lAM62TD/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1loLrUPrluCfUvzO733vH244oX2ETJ_sn/view?usp=sharing

 

 

 

Philip Hickman’s Wife, Christal

I knocked on their door, introduced myself, she invited me in and we discussed the situation. She informed me that he bought the home and actually put $130k cash down on the home, that she is a housewife, that she never invested in this business, that they had been together for over 2 years, that he proposed to her May of 2021 in Vegas, (while engaged to me) and that they went to pre-marital counseling. It was also revealed that Philip had a vasectomy well before his last marriage, thus could not have more kids. She was obviously hurt but visibly numb from the situation. There was a lot more to the conversation, the pastor gave her my number and she eventually called me a few times after that.

Philip’s wife calls him William. Other women who met him on online dating sites said that they called him William so it is my assumption that they met on an online dating site.

 

There was a time back in May 2021 that I called Philip and he told me that he was mad at me and how he wasn’t feeling so well “down there”. He told me that he had a weak positive and negative result for trich. Knowing that I had not been with anyone else, I told him that he was not about to blame that on me. I immediately went to the urgent care for testing and my results were negative. I gave the situation the benefit of doubt since we both weren’t responsible about getting tested prior to being intimate. I told him to take whatever medicine he needs to take and that I never wanted to discuss it again. I saw the meds in his bathroom.

 

Here are some of the recordings with Philip Hickman’s wife, Christal

 

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1vu04KAgARiL6HcXd8Rwh1XZRQhkUediD/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1LMsgcC-XRwmsnyKnwDewIxJi5-XemWuK/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1s4qwHiems6r5YChXRBw-nmiJtfRtVgd0/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/102skVoQz5SwN2u93JPcPQlkjC6TS6Gyq/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/110Qjg_uVIPXVbpdAs8n9g5sHPAgc3D49/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ct65LDZrDpzmYmkD-dW_3O61g8V9nIuZ/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1lph0CqzojagSrW4M8Ui3B4vHIhMmDyAn/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1BsnAfO_MHGtVcW7F5J5YFPm4nJwFJoLP/view?usp=sharing

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1o-A_H5eQVn3i0XYaQTgl-horhUNdAgSE/view?usp=sharing

 

 

Here is the image of the weak Positive/Neg STD that Philip Hickman sent me

 

 

Here my results from that same timeframe

 

 

Of course I got tested after the visit with the wife. BUT, after hearing all of these horror stories, I am really surprised that I managed to get a way from the predator STD free. Thank God!

 

 

 

Philip would send me his schedule from time to time and in August 2021, while I was shopping for food for his step son’s birthday celebration, he sent me his schedule and it had Marriage Counseling on it. I nearly fainted in the Sam’s Club. Philip never told me about counseling couples. I dropped off the food and probed a bit and he told me that he would sometimes take on cases at church and that was one of the cases. I asked him if we needed pre-marital counseling and he said that he wasn’t sure yet. Anyway, that was a lie. I indeed saw what I was afraid of, he was going to pre marital counseling with another woman. I talked to a lady that Philip sent that same schedule to. This is something that he does to try and validate just how busy his life is.

 

So a quick summary.

-Philip Hickman asked me to give him a baby, harassed me about not having a baby, allowed me to get tests, hormones, track my fertility etc., knowing good and well there was no way he could produce a baby due to having a VASCETOMY. 

-It appears that he met his wife at some point before he met me 

-asked me to marry him in March 2021

-Asked her to marry him May 2021

-Actually married her February 2022

-All while still being with me. 

-He’s even talked about how he had someone to marry us 

-Wanted to get our initials tattooed on each other’s ring finger

-Talked about going to Vegas to get married 

-All after he had already gotten married.

-He definitely never wore a wedding ring around me.  

-He was never faithful in his marriage or engagements and had I not ended things he would have kept playing games until the end of time.

-There is also reason to believe that there are other women. (Other MEN and women have been confirmed, just keep reading because this mess gets juicy) 

-Oh and that tattoo that I didn’t pay enough attention to actually says Feb 2nd, 2022 Love. He and his wife got matching tattoos for their wedding date. She showed me her tattoo. 

-His behavior is unethical, abusive, repetitive and controlling. He is a narcissistic sociopath.

 

Mississippi Scandal.

A guy sent me an article about scandal of Philip Hickman when he was the superintendent in Mississippi. The story was about Philip having an affair with with a former male student, who was an adult at the time. This information made headlines via paper, news and was on YouTube and I had no clue. There were also issues misusing school funds, shady hiring practices among other thing that lead the Philip being fired from his superintendent position.

Philip originally told me that he was fired because the district was racist, that they were doing everything in their power to push him out. The district waited until towards near the end of his contract to fire him after accusing him of pointing his finger in the face of a white woman. He was actually fired for using $15,000 in district funds to pay a reputation management firm to clean up search engine results if someone were to search him or the district. Philip’s spiel about that is that he was really fired because of a racist district and that if he really misused that much money he would have gone to jail and he was never arrested. He also mentioned that either Mississippi or the district has laws/rules that you can get fired for being gay. I don’t know if that’s true but thought that was a random fact to tell me. (Note: I was not aware of the scandal with the former student during this conversation.)

 

Philip said that he had a salary of over $14,000 a month and how every month he and his wife would spend it all but that he didn’t care because you know what, they knew that the next month another $14,000 was coming. When he lost his job they eventually lost everything and he he was sort of blacklisted from every position tried to get in Mississippi. They moved back to Kansas City but his wife distanced herself from him due to him being able to provide for her and moved into her sister’s home. She supposedly told him that she did not want his teenage son there due to him being disrespectful. He spoke of her being abusive and embarrassing during their marriage. Philip, a man with “five masters degrees and his doctorate” as he likes to quote, says that it was initially very difficult to find employment in Kansas City, He couldn’t even get a job as a janitor so he began creating his own opportunities. Philip also said that his first wife was physically and verbally abusive and that at some point his family was afraid that she was going to kill him. When asked what did he do wrong within his marriages, Philip would always play victim.

 

It’s always someone else’s fault. This is a pattern. What Philip is likely leaving out is the scandal and shame and probably diseases that he brought home. They probably were trying to kill his shady, trifling, dangerous, no good, cheating, low-down, down-low, disease carrying black ass. But that is just my assumption. (Insert shrugs emoji)

 

Let’s get into Plabook. 

 

Dr. Philip Hickman received a grant in St Louis, the Arch Grant and is currently under investigation with Arch Grants by program director, for fraud. The grant required winners to relocate to St. Louis for at least a year. He never left Kansas City and used an address that he never lived at in St Louis to get the grant. Philip owns a home in Lees Summit and purchased a second home in Greenwood Mo near Lees Summit in March and he lives there while promising to commit to St Louis for a year. He also works for Cerner in Kansas City. There is reason to believe that the $130,000 cash down payment that he put on the new home is from his grant earnings that should be used to grow Plabook Education. Is that part breaking some requirement? I don’t know. Each grant usage requirement will be different but for typical grants, there are strict guidelines about how that money is to be used.

 

Philip also used plagiarized information from CommonLit for reading testing modules that are inputted into Plabook. Material that is already published and used for education. Material that he did not have a license to use. Originally, Philip was working on a deal with Scholastic but the owner, Maurice Richard Robinson Jr., died and left everything to his girlfriend. The owner’s death left Philip’s collaboration in limbo. At the time I just assumed that he found a new collaboration. I did not put more thought in the process of gathering sentences from the book from CommonLit other than thinking that there had to be a better way to collect the information. The sentences were added to a spreadsheet by grade level and inputted into Plabook. I kept getting distracted with the process as some of the stories were interesting and found myself reading the passages, slowing down the imputing of data. I took pictures of the stories on Philip’s computer, that I wanted to revisit, vs reading them while working on the spreadsheets. Philip’s goal was to attempt to only copy about three sentences from each story so that it wasn’t caught. He had me input some of that data which took what seems like a lifetime and once the project was over, he explained why he only wanted to use three sentences. Because of copyright infringement.

 

 

 

Other Grants that Philip Hickman Received

 

A few months ago, I was in an a meeting with other entrepreneurs and a man rattled something about there being someone in Kansas City who keeps winning large grants but had no results to show from it. I was curious to know of who he was talking about but forgot to ask him. I have seen Philip in images from a few years back, one with a grant check for $500,000 another for $50,000. Since I have known Philip he has gotten a handful of grants or funding from accelerators; $50,000 here, $100,000 there. He was just awarded $100,000 for the Google for Startups Black Funders Fund. Today October 7, 2022, a lady told me that she knows he is using the grant money for personal gain but she has no way to prove it. So I contacted the man who made the comment and asked who he was talking about. I wasn’t aware that he already read this website. This is what he had to say.

A message for a Community Leader in Kansas City

 

“Good morning. Thank you. All is well. I saw the website and have even heard other stories similar to yours prior to your posts. I want you to know that as a man who is not perfect by any stretch of the imagination that I sincerely applaud you for having the courage to share your experiences and I empathize with you as no one deserves to be treated in such a malicious manner. I am not at liberty to reveal the similar horrific experiences of others, but know that the verbiage, lies, deception, business practices, sexual risks, and all are issues that these women discovered and faced dealing with your Phil. Too often, victims in this manner are silenced because of embarrassment, fear, violent threats, harassment, external ridicule, self-righteous judgements, ignorant defense of the abuser, and more. But you took your power back from this serial predator who threatens the health and safety of women and our community. Others may see your actions and think there is a better way to handle it. How many can really say they have been in your shoes to this degree of hurt, usury, mental abuse, emotional abuse, maniacal manipulation, and overall intentional evil seduction? And no one that he has done this to before has ever taken a path to really expose him for his repeated nature of destruction. Otherwise, you may not have been exposed to this serious threat to your health and safety. Again, I applaud you for stepping up to make all who will listen aware of Philip’s masterful and crude manipulation. I actually listened to each recording to confirm what others have shared in private to better understand the type of narcissistic traits exhibited by him. I would add that the victims I know are concerned about your safety because he has intimated that he would kill, sabotage, lie, destroy, and go to any extreme to protect his reputation. The damage he does to women, families, and even the black tech ecosystem is his business model that flourishes because he convinces individuals and organizations to give to him repeatedly. Because no one wants to sully their reputation or be accused by someone that has been declared credible, Philip has been allowed to operate in a calculated bubble of protection. Organizations do not want the perception that they somehow dealt unfairly with him and he is allowed to repeatedly fool the system again and again. This is a tragedy for those companies that could really benefit but also part of his deceptive misuse of women whom he manipulates into supporting him as a visionary, genius, educator, and victim of racism. All of the victims I know could not verify any product delivery or real business practices leading to his company ever generating any significant revenue in the short-term or long-term. So, be careful and keep collecting and sharing stories. I am sharing with you because the village must come together to protect its members. I would also ask that you keep my identity anonymous if you choose to share the comments above. I stand on everything I have said but have no authority to to reveal the identity if those who could confirm every alleged statement. It’s only out of respect for them and their trust in me as a Minister to them that I could not violate my oath of confidence. Please give your beautiful little girl a big hug and know that you are not alone. Thank you so much for having the courage to help put an end to this savage behavior. If no one else says thank you, I say thank you. Philip will be brought down. God is not pleased. He has violated the decency of God’s order and the universe keeps count. I pray he repents and makes restitution to everyone he has wronged. Finally, continue to take care of you and your family. Don’t let this consume you. This is a hard lesson, but you can recover. Trust God!!!“

“It’s been 6 to 7 years that I have observed Phil repeatedly win grants but have never heard nor seen any real sales of the product. I know of individuals and even a team that was assembled to assist him with moving the company forward and he refused to follow through. So yes, I was referring to him but I am very cautious of disparaging anyone particularly black men because of the inherent racist Society we live in.“

 

“Your blasting Philip is not making the black community look bad it is your accountability that is actually upholding a standard and making the black business Community look better. Victim blaming happens all too Common and too many times people will run to the defense of the perpetrator in error thinking they are protecting the culture. Instead, they are really protecting themselves and their position in this tech community and Black tech funding space. I understand where the woman is coming from, but we can’t be afraid that holding someone accountable in our community for their intentionally destructive actions will cause dollars from white folks to dry up because they apply the sins of one to the whole group. We must vehemently reject this thought process and any retaliatory of white racism because we enact a standard of integrity. Other communities do not face this same dilemma and it is unfair to victim blame or to conflate the issue.“

 

Who knows what other fraudulent acts he has created. When I look up Plabook on the Missouri Secretary of State Website is shows that his business was filed on January 16, 2020 but strangely he did a voluntary dissolution on September 24, 2020. I have never heard Philip mention having his headquarter outside of Missouri so I don’t know where else Plabook could be registered. He is also the original Co-Founder of WeCode but when I last checked their website, Philips name was no longer on there.

 

Another strange thing that someone pointed out to me, Philip’s number does not show on her call records. I looked at my call records and nothing. There is absolutely no record our phone activity ever existed. Not even a dummy number on the date and time to replace the actual number. One day Philip was talking about hiding text records and issues with his text in the past. Normally, I pay close attention to everything everyone is saying but at some point I stopped listening because it didn’t make sense to me, even after I asked questions. I’ve worked in telecom years ago and thought that what he was saying was impossible. I should have paid more attention because he obviously knows of some service that scrubs the existence of his phone records.

 

Smear Campaign created by Philip Hickman

 

When Philip created the smear campaign for me he even created fake text messages between the two of us. Of course I still have ALL of our messages and can easily show the difference between what is real and what’s fake but that goes to show that Philip is willing to go to any length to protect this false reputation. My number shows at the top of the message to he is either using some sort of app or it’s photoshopped. I took a screen recording of the fake page to capture the nude that he posted of me and the rest of the content.

 

 

Ladies, men, educators, business people, employers, Philip Hickman is a master manipulator; beware of this man’s deception and unethical behavior.  

 

Not to mention you can also do a quick google search “Philip Hickman Mississippi Superintendent Scandal” and find all of the details of other scandals that includes, threats, misappropriation of company funds, adultery, lies, being fried and the relationship with his ex-boyfriend. 

 

Do not trust this man. He is charming, he is handsome, he is lovable but he is a FRAUD.

 

 

Letter from Philip Hickman’s Pastor

 

I had a conversation with Philip’s Pastor about the situation after I told Christal about us. Then after the creation of this website a random person who I haven’t seen or spoken to in years alerted me that Philip and his wife were at church saying that Philip is being “attacked”. She felt that nothing would come from everything that is happening because he is playing victim. So I decided to make sure the church was aware that this man is a liar and a monster. Well, the church was already aware of this website. Here is a message from Philip Hickman’s pastor.

 

Marsha,

     “Today, our staff alerted us to an email you sent to the Refreshing Waters Facebook messages, and I wanted to reach out to you, in good faith, with a clear and heartfelt response.

     As you know, we had no knowledge of this troubling situation until you contacted us on September 14^th. At that time, we told you we were deeply disturbed by what you revealed to us.  No one from our church leadership knew about this until the recent public release of your detailed report, a few days ago.

     To be clear, Philip Hickman was not and is not a part of the Refreshing Waters leadership team or ministerial staff. Furthermore, as a Church and ministry, we do not condone, support, protect or tolerate any behavior that causes such harm and devastation to others. 

     When you informed us of the situation, we took the necessary actions to deal with this from a ministry standpoint. As such, Refreshing Waters Worship Center is not a party to this situation, we will not participate in any further adjudication, and it is not necessary to send any further information regarding this personal and now public matter to us. 

     Marsha, we sincerely regret the trauma that has been caused to you and others by these events; it’s truly sad and heartbreaking. As we stated to you and prayed for you during our first talk, we are asking God to give you peace and we trust that He will surround you with good counsel to facilitate complete healing for you and all involved.

Blessings to you and Your family.”

 

Philip Hickman and Mental Illness

 

It is my belief that Dr. Philip Hickman is a Narcissistic Sex Addicted Sociopath. He also displays signs of multiple personalities. He is possessive, jealous, and insecure.

When looking over his court records there is an interesting lawsuit initiated by Philip to a mental health center back in 2000. He would have been 24 years old. The case was dismissed with our prejudice. I believe that he was a patient. Not only are is the Mental Health Center listed as a defendant but also the State of Missouri Department of Mental Health with the Assistant Attorney Generals office listed for the attorney. This looks more like a patient case vs an employment lawsuit plus I have never seen anything on his resume that had him practicing psychology in a clinical setting. It’s always been in an educational setting. This screams committed.

 

 

STORIES FROM OTHER VICTIMS of Philip Hickman

After posting this report and sending to anyone I thought was connected to Philip many people have starting sharing their stories about their relationships with Philip/William Hickman.

 

Lady in Atlanta and conversation with Philip Hickman

After the news being told to his wife about Philip being a cheater, this man is still telling women that he is NOT married and trying to link up. He talked to a woman just two days ago wanting to see her in Atlanta in a few weeks. She reached out to me after seeing this article and told me how she knew him and how her school planned to use Plabook. After my post, folk from her school called her questioning the post. She said that she stuck her neck out for him. While we were talking, Philip called her, she added me to the call. I was silent, recording the call, of course. She asked him multiple times if he was married and he denied it. I honestly thought for sure that by now, he’d tell the truth about his wife, Christal. Especially since it only takes a quick google search to see marriage license information for Vegas but NO, he is still portraying to be single.

 

Ladies, do not believe this man. He is MARRIED!

 

Clips from Philip Hickman and lady in Atlanta

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1k8oJKJS6bD9eovRZQnif8qRaCOqY0OIY/view?usp=sharing

 

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1ZYZUziUayP3FXoM7RBgQlCGEbeqUH01n/view?usp=sharing

 

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1uOZiG00LqeaT9c5pnWrFMSr_GMvq3dx8/view?usp=sharing

 

https://drive.google.com/file/d/10EcHgYoCs5A5YgkFe7wEjtz2HlwLhOsn/view?usp=sharing

 

https://drive.google.com/file/d/1z5QALxIiG4VBfBhFY9aJyz0jch2-6UFZ/view?usp=sharing

 

 

 September 29, 2022

I had an interesting conversation with a lady who reached out to me saying that she has been involved with Philip on and off for 5 years so that she did understand why I am trying to “destroy” him when I have only known Philip for 2 years. Ummm, what?!

She also mentioned that they planned to get married, have a baby buy a house and that he gave her chlamydia.

 

This is exactly why this information is important. There are tons of people (men and women) that he is involved with. This is a public health matter. He is out here spreading diseases and some day it will be worse. This man is on the downlow and might just give someone something that will kill them.

 

For the record, I have definitely been tested throughout our relationship and since finding out this information. Philip has NEVER passed anything to me, thank God!

 

Philip is meeting women on dating apps. Match.com is one that seems to be consistent. The other lady said that she believes that his profile is still active on the site.

 

 

 

He leaves a trail of lies, hurt, adultery, fraud, deception-Scandal, everywhere he goes .

– He is Dr. Philip William Van Hickman